Firstly, you should know what kind of person that you want.
This is the most the essential point before you have a transgender dating. If you don’t know who you want to date, maybe it is a fatal flaw which can cause you fail. I am supposing that you are sad after you read the article about “Starting over Again”. The possibility is you did something wrong and she run away. Now that you clearly know that you don’t want to keep a long ts dating relationship with the transgender who is standing in front of you, describe the circumstances immediately. Because a terrible relationship will make you physically and mentally exhausted. And if you can’t feel the love of the person who you are thinking about, just stop, and ask your heart if you can continue love her. If not, please stop at once. But don’t lose your confidence to your next relationship and lose your hope for the life. You should know not everyone can accompany us for a lifetime. At the beginning of every relationship, some of us always feel confused, because from then on, we have to learn to take care of the feelings of another person in the world. This person is not the closest person to you, because there is no any blood relationship between you and the transgender. But you would like this person to be your closest person, let her accompany you through the vast life, this is a kind of luxury. There is no such thing in an unequal ts date relationship as unconditional giving, or unconditional taking.
Secondly, put down the past and don't look back.
At the end of every relationship, it is always hard to give up, because from that time on, you have to learn how to live. This must be a very difficult process to adapt to, and this is a progress that you will begin to suspect others, will begin to doubt yourself, in fact, this is not important. What matters is how you accept this established fact. I am more convinced that in a word, you can live a good life together, and you can live a good life without being together.
No not connect your new relationship with your new one.
Now that you are finally healed, don't connect your old relationship with your new one. There is an old saying goes that Let bygones be bygones. If you always like to associate your new love with your past love, the shadow of failure will always hang over you. This is not only alarmist talk. We know that forgetting is a very important part of starting a new life. Even as a transgender, we still have the right to love and be loved. To get along well with others, the most significant thing is to understand each other. If you or others do something wrong, learn to forgive yourself and others. Now that we decide to have a new relationship, it means that we are ready to enter a new life.
Good luck!
Elena